Making Up After Breaking Up

Making up after breaking up. Is that all you want to do? Sometimes the pain seems almost unbearable. You can't help but think about that other person. You can't eat, sleep or bear the thought of going forward without, what you consider, to be your better half.

I can understand where you are coming from. I've been there and done that. And I never want to go through that again. It is so painful to go through the emotional turmoil of breaking up.

One of the first things you need to do though is realize that it isn't your fault. Nothing that you could have said or done would have truly made a difference in the outcome without some alternate gender wisdom.

Men and women are wired differently. They think differently and they feel differently about everything. Life choices, values and morals, even rules for life.

Think about it. Here is an example. Consider the way a man and a woman view a public restroom in a restaurant. A woman will ask another woman at the table if she'd like to go with her to the bathroom. Would a man ever do this? No way!

A woman can go into the bathroom, meet a total stranger, carry on a conversation with her and leave with a new best friend. Would a man ever do this? No way!

A man goes into the bathroom, does his business and leaves. He doesn't talk to anyone. He doesn't even really want to make eye contact with anyone.

Here's another example. Consider how a man and a woman handle the situation of getting lost on their way to drive someplace.

A woman stops and asks for directions. A man just drives around sightseeing until he can get his bearings and figure out the correct way to go.

If you just stop and think about it, then you know that life is full of these differences. Neither person is better than the other...they are just different.

For the same reason a woman sees a different approach to making up than a man does.

So...if you want to get your man back, then you are going to have to approach the situation the way a man views it. He's got to "get it" for it to work.

Take a look at The Magic of Making Up. It is a short report written by a man, T.W. Jackson. He makes sense and he "gets it". He has helped thousands of people in countries all over the world.

Everything can change if you change your perspective. You can view some free videos that T Dub (that's what he likes to be called) has made and see that you really can save your relationship if that's what you want.

Click here to watch the free videos.

I can understand the pain and frustration that you must be going through and I really want to help you. Just think about this.