If you’re wondering, “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup must not have been so devastating that you think the relationship can’t be saved. At least you must hope that it can be saved and thinking it is half the battle. You’ll have to hope she feels the same way. If you hurt your ex during the split then you should apologize, now’s the time to say you’re sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step. There is a correct way to say your sorry and T Dub and shows you in a video the right way to do this.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive side?
Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds are more and more in your favor when you do things right. Show her how much you miss her, and how sorry you are. Just pay attention to what she does. Consider her feelings and communicate on a level that she will understand. The old words that actions speak louder than words are even more true when speaking to a woman. Heed these words of wisdom. If your gestures of sorrow only make her angry—she throws away the roses or something dramatic like that, for example—change your tactics until you find that particular something she will respond to. Remember that women and men are NOT created equal.
If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’s easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote. Try putting yourself in her shoes and try to figure out something more appealing. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact, many times it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel. Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquet that you put together all by yourself. Remember that a woman is defined by all the senses. She is many faceted and you must appeal to all of her senses.
A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful. Were you thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful? Not necessarily, but it’s one more step toward your goal of getting her back. Every positive action you can do builds up to make it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Like an onion, a relationship with a woman can have many layers. Build those layers in your favor. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though.
If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’ll probably doubt the things you do now. Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’t appear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feels good to make her happy, not because you’re working toward a goal. If you appear to be doing something only because you some hidden agenda, she will recognize this as only a temporary change and think that you are a fake. Be consistent in your actions and words so that you do not come off as phony. You have to genuinely want to be thoughtful of her.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?
If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire. She may see this as you being two-faced. Like why is he wooing me while he's involved with someone else?
Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?
The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Forget the odds and go for what you want. Appeal to her in ways he can't and you'll have an even better chance of building a relationship with her. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.
If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness will really impress her if it is genuine.
The points made above are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.
Frankly, that's what I did when my true love dumped me. I followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back. It's called "The Magic of Making Up" and you can check it out at: http://1042csm00.makingup.hop.clickbank.net
