Welcome to my Blog!

I don't know how you found me or how you found my blog, but I am glad you did. After you look around, you'll be glad too!

If you are hurting from a breakup then I wished we had met under happier circumstances. I know firsthand what a painful situation you are going through. It hurts so much that sometimes I felt like ending my life just so I could end the pain. Don't do that! In retrospect I can see how stupid that would have been! Look around the blog and I hope that you are able to pick up some tidbit of info that will help you feel better.

If you are here to discover some secrets to a happier relationship and ignite your passion once again, congratulations. You've come to the right place.

You can read through the posts and discover a lot of really useful information on securing a healthy relationship. There is also a very good book mentioned a few times in my blog. It is called, The Magic of Making Up. It is a great resource for mending and/or improving your relationship.

If you are not broken up then you can learn how to increase your passion.

If you are in a broken relationship, you can discover ways to heal your relationship.

Whatever is the right thing for you to do...enjoy your time here!

You can also leave me a comment if you have some ideas of your own or if you have a question. Check back often because I do respond to your comments.

Praying for the best for you,
Carole

Friday, July 2, 2010

Best Seller Books On Relationships May Make A Fool Of You

If your ex has just broken up with you, you may be looking for books on healing relationships. But how do you choose the best books on relationships among all the books out there?
This article will show you how I choose the best books on relationships. And the answer will surprise you. Read on…

First off, you don’t want to be fooled by fancy letters after a author’s name. There are many people out there who find school to be a convenient escape from real life. Instead of engaging with people, they spend their time in the classroom and library. As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35. They use their degrees to indicate that they have “expert knowledge” of a situation. But how much experience about relationship building in the real world do they really have?

Instead, you should look for books on relationships by authors who have been in the trenches. They’ve either put a bad relationship back together themselves or they have helped countless friends to do the same. These aren’t therapy patients that come in for the “fifty minute hour” either. These are relationships of people that author actually cares about and wants to help.

Next, you want to find books that don’t boil down to “put the relationship aside for 30 days and work on yourself during that period.” This is what most “save your relationship” or “get your ex back” books will tell you. Many of the e-books on the market turn that very concept into a 50 page document. These are just pieces of fluff that don’t deserve your attention – or your money.

Instead, you should look for a book that will give you brand new information; information that your friends can’t give you. Information that sparks a new perspective and way to build a relationship.

Here are some questions that you should consider when looking for a book. Will the book tell you what a woman craves the most? Will it give you a step-by-step guide about how to satisfy those cravings? Will the book show you what you need to do to recover from an affair? Will it give you specific techniques that will enable you to get relief from your pain?

Finally, look at who is recommending the book. Do the testimonials seem a little generic? Were they written by the author’s brother and second cousin?

You want to find books on relationships that come recommended by a wide variety of people, in various situations, from all walks of life. If it looks like both a guy from England and a newly engaged woman from Kansas have used the book, chances are it will work for you. Does it work for people regardless of where they are coming from?

There are many books on building or healing relationships that are on the market. Unfortunately, most of them are drivel because they weren’t written by someone in the trenches. As a result, they have generic advice that could be best summed up in a paragraph or two. That would mean that the recommendations the book can get are generic in nature, because the book really has nothing going for it.

Finding the best books on relationships takes a little work. But, everything about relationships takes work. Shouldn’t you invest the time and money in the very best book out there?