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I don't know how you found me or how you found my blog, but I am glad you did. After you look around, you'll be glad too!

If you are hurting from a breakup then I wished we had met under happier circumstances. I know firsthand what a painful situation you are going through. It hurts so much that sometimes I felt like ending my life just so I could end the pain. Don't do that! In retrospect I can see how stupid that would have been! Look around the blog and I hope that you are able to pick up some tidbit of info that will help you feel better.

If you are here to discover some secrets to a happier relationship and ignite your passion once again, congratulations. You've come to the right place.

You can read through the posts and discover a lot of really useful information on securing a healthy relationship. There is also a very good book mentioned a few times in my blog. It is called, The Magic of Making Up. It is a great resource for mending and/or improving your relationship.

If you are not broken up then you can learn how to increase your passion.

If you are in a broken relationship, you can discover ways to heal your relationship.

Whatever is the right thing for you to do...enjoy your time here!

You can also leave me a comment if you have some ideas of your own or if you have a question. Check back often because I do respond to your comments.

Praying for the best for you,
Carole

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

How Do I Get My Ex Back After He Has Moved On?

Have you broken up with your boyfriend, and are now asking for help like 'how do I get my ex back when he's moved on'? Don't spend time moping, because breaking up and losing that relationship does not mean you have lost it forever. Here are some simple tips for learning how to get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman. Even if he no longer appears to be interested in associating with you. The magic is in the fact that you can still repair your previous relationship.

1) The first step in getting the man of your dreams back into your life is finding a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really, really does not want anything to do with you, then there are a lot of options that you can pursue from this point on.

2) One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. Be a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without creating any drama. Show him that you can joke around with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again. After all, if he loved you before then he probably still has a spark which just has to be re-ignited to be a full sized flame.

3) When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him, but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. Be confident of who you are without him. You are going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot have you just yet. Since playing games is not the best way to go then you do not want give an air of hard to get. You do want to make him more interested in the process of being with you, but that means that you don't want to be clingy and begging for him.

4) You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure that he knows you are interested and available. You shouldn't completely rule out the concept of a bit of flirting and hanging out with friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt anyone, but it is important that you play it straight. If he doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.

5) Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under estimate you. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on. If you act desperate, things won't work out the way you are intending them to, so avoid doing this at all costs. Again, avoid acting clingy and being perceived as desperate.

6) Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious kind of way. Never underestimate the power of eye contact in this way. It is teasingly romantic.

7) Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These good memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad memories, because it will only hurt his bad side and stir up feelings of resentment, which will not do you any good. Remember that the only way to get on with the future is to get over the past.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your ex back.

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